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On a wet evening in February, I stood in a long line waiting to get into the Royal Festival Hall. It would turn out to be one of the most memorable events I have ever attended. I was there, along with hundreds of others, to listen to Gisele Pelicot in conversation with journalist Samira Ahmed.<\/p>\n

As we waited for proceedings to begin, the anticipation in the room was palpable. There was a sense of unity, reverence and combined strength. We stood there together in support of a woman who had been through unimaginable trauma, and yet still had chosen to open up her story to the world. Her aim – to inspire others to have the courage to seek justice, and in the process, free themselves of the burden they are carrying. As she says, ‘shame has to change hands<\/em><\/strong>‘.<\/p>\n

The background<\/h2>\n

Back in 2020, in Mazan a small town in south west France, a supermarket security guard noticed a man upskirting. He reported him to the police. It was to be the beginning of a long list of horrific revelations. Evidence found on his phone showed him, and many other men, abusing his wife while she was drugged. So powerful were the drugs, that Gisele was completely unaware of what had happened. He had also given her muscle relaxants so she would feel no pain afterwards.<\/p>\n

Dominique Pelicot invited a series of strangers he had met on the internet into their home. They were ‘ordinary’ men of all ages and from all walks of life: firemen, nurses, students, councillors, the list goes on. Some were from Mazan itself, a town of only 6 000 residents. Many were married with children, most had no previous convictions. All were prepared to commit such atrocities only to return home afterwards and carry on with life as before. Dominique would sit across from his wife over breakfast the next morning as if nothing had happened. How is that possible?<\/p>\n

Unlike most rape cases, where the victim has to decide whether to subject themselves to the extensive, and often intrusive, investigation process, here the police had to inform Gisele about what had been occurring. From that moment on, her world collapsed.<\/p>\n

The case finally came to trial in 2024 and was broadcast worldwide.<\/p>\n

The evening<\/h2>\n

As Gisele walked on to the stage, the audience erupted. It was a spine-tingling moment. She looked genuinely shocked to receive such a welcome, and overcome with the support of what was likely more than 2 500 people. It wasn’t to be the last time they were on their feet through the evening, appreciating the resilience of such an incredible woman and her determination to change the narrative.<\/p>\n

The interview in itself would have been memorable enough. However, in addition we were treated to readings from Juliet Stevenson, Dame Kristin Scott-Thomas and Kate Winslet. What a privilege to be in the company of all of these phenomenal women.<\/p>\n